Leslie, this is a wonderul thing you are doing for your dear friend's family.
Here is one other idea for your consideration:
Scrap your friend's favorite family recipes. If her mother survives her, she might also have special recipes that might not get passed down to the granddaughter under these circumstances.
The scrapping could be very simple (like this
soup recipe card), perhaps done in some of your friend's favorite colors.
Who knows, your friend's DH might even want to save the scrapbook to give to their daughter as a wedding gift some day. . . .