Stamping Demo Dilemma
I feel sick about this situation and I need to get it out. I've been having a whale of a time with a "certain stamp company" concerning an order I placed on December 6th.
I wrote the following to the company on Dec 28th, a day before my demo called me:
"Dear Sir or Madam:
I placed an order with my demo on December 6, 2006.
It has not yet arrived, and I have been unable to
reach her for more than a week. My credit card was
debited on December 13, 2006, so I know that the order
has been processed. Is there any way to find out if
it was shipped yet or when I should expect it to
arrive?
[...my info, demo's info...]
I have some important projects that I was going to
make as gifts with the stamp sets and supplies I
ordered. I had expected to receive the order before
now, and I have to know if I should still plan on
making these gifts or if I should purchase new gifts
and cards elsewhere. Please let me know soon.
Sincerely,
Rebecca _____"
So the next day my demo calls because she was finally able to get my message, and we get a whole lot of things straightened out between us. For a variety of very good and valid reasons, she had been unable to place my order (I had wrongly assumed that if my cc was charged that the order had gone through), but that she was doing so that day. She loaned me her stamps and gave me a free set at her expense which I thought was going way above and beyond.
I wasn't angry, I just wanted to know what had happened and what was going on. If anything, I thought the company was at fault! As it is, the order *still* isn't here and this time I know for certain that she placed the order on the 29th.
My dilemma is that just today, 14 days after I contacted them, I found out that they sent my demo an e-mail threatening legal action of some kind! She hadn't heard from the company at all before this and neither had I. She is very hurt and upset by all this, and I can't blame her -- I would be too! I also think it's deplorable that they waited two weeks to contact either of us about anything.
I feel just awful about contacting the company at all. I was only requesting information. I never intended to get her in trouble or imply that I was unhappy with her services. I never thought she did anything wrong in the first place! She's going through myriad difficulties in her life right now and doesn't need this on top of everything. Apparently they're keeping my "complaint" as a permanent negative in her file. This is so unfair!
What can I do?
Rebecca
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