swap hostess
I usally send a different card that just something like thanks, or thank you and enclose a small gift, maybe stickers, or some ribbon. I've added a package of eyelets or buttons. You get the idea. It's just a nice touch for the added work they do. I think most hostess' are surprised to get something because they do it out of the goodess of their hearts and that's the only reason, so it makes it a nice surprise to get a "extra" something!
Paula
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