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Good Morning!!

I am tired and cranky. The bad thing about firing the live on site help is that I now get to respond to alarms. 2 last night I had to drive too, once at 1 am and once at 3:30 am. And it is an hour round trip to go there. And they were both false alarms (Of course, they always are but we still have to check them) I am soooooooo tired.
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Morning girls. Got an email from my mom in the middle of the night. My Grandma passed away 3hrs before she arrived there. Her funeral was yesterday.

On a seperate note, do any of you Texans live or know where Wimberley is? Are any of you near there?
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Morning girls. Got an email from my mom in the middle of the night. My Grandma passed away 3hrs before she arrived there. Her funeral was yesterday.

On a seperate note, do any of you Texans live or know where Wimberley is? Are any of you near there?
I'm sorry Novell. (((hugs)))
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Sorry for being MIA, but I have a good excuse I promise!

First off, I started spotting on Tuesday night and Wednesday I worked a half day and went to the Dr. in the afternoon. Dr. changed my ultrasound on Thursday from 5pm to 10am. Wednesday night I started bleeding alot heavier and Thursday morning the ultrasound confirmed I had a miscarriage. Thanks to all of you for listening to me freak out and just giving me your wonderful advice!
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Morning girls. Got an email from my mom in the middle of the night. My Grandma passed away 3hrs before she arrived there. Her funeral was yesterday.

On a seperate note, do any of you Texans live or know where Wimberley is? Are any of you near there?
I am so sorry to hear about your Grandma! Prayers for comfort for you and your family!
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Morning girls. Got an email from my mom in the middle of the night. My Grandma passed away 3hrs before she arrived there. Her funeral was yesterday.

On a seperate note, do any of you Texans live or know where Wimberley is? Are any of you near there?
So sorry Novell! ((HUGS))
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First off, I started spotting on Tuesday night and Wednesday I worked a half day and went to the Dr. in the afternoon. Dr. changed my ultrasound on Thursday from 5pm to 10am. Wednesday night I started bleeding alot heavier and Thursday morning the ultrasound confirmed I had a miscarriage. Thanks to all of you for listening to me freak out and just giving me your wonderful advice!
OH VAL! I am soooooooooo sorry! I know how much you both wanted this. I also had a miscarriage, so if you need anyone to talk to give me a ring.

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quoting my self.

dont give up trying. you know that you got pregnant once and it can happen again. just give your body time to heal and you can start that fun stuff of trying to conceive again!!

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Granny,

Your gift is going UPS GRD tonight. You should get it in 2-3 days!

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Thanks Babes!
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We are looking at it exactly as you said! We are hopeful for the future outcome! Thanks for the encouragement!

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dont give up trying. you know that you got pregnant once and it can happen again. just give your body time to heal and you can start that fun stuff of trying to conceive again!!
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My SIL brought all 4 of the kids to my house yesterday and they brought me flowers. The best part was when my 6 years old niece told me that she was so sorry and that God will give you and Uncle Gary another baby. From the mouths of babes...
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My SIL brought all 4 of the kids to my house yesterday and they brought me flowers. The best part was when my 6 years old niece told me that she was so sorry and that God will give you and Uncle Gary another baby. From the mouths of babes...
that's so sweet and brought tears to my eyes. ((hugs)) to you and Uncle Gary.
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Morning girls. Got an email from my mom in the middle of the night. My Grandma passed away 3hrs before she arrived there. Her funeral was yesterday.

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so sorry to hear about your grandma.
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Novell, I'm sorry to hear about your gramdmother!
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Val- I am so sorry to hear this. You have a really positive attitude in what I know is a really hard time for you. I wish you and Gary all the luck in the world that you get pregnant again soon and have a happy healthy baby. (((hugs)))
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[quote=valrocks]Granny,

Your gift is going UPS GRD tonight. You should get it in 2-3 days!

XOXOXO



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Val- I am so sorry to hear this. You have a really positive attitude in what I know is a really hard time for you. I wish you and Gary all the luck in the world that you get pregnant again soon and have a happy healthy baby. (((hugs)))
what she said. we're here if you need us, val. {{{HUGS}}}
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First off, I started spotting on Tuesday night and Wednesday I worked a half day and went to the Dr. in the afternoon. Dr. changed my ultrasound on Thursday from 5pm to 10am. Wednesday night I started bleeding alot heavier and Thursday morning the ultrasound confirmed I had a miscarriage. Thanks to all of you for listening to me freak out and just giving me your wonderful advice!

Val....I am so sorry to hear this. You vent away,scream,cry,kick and anything else you need to do here all you want to.
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novell, i'm so sorry about your grandmother. {{{HUGS}}}

wimberly is a quaint, little town in the hill country of texas. it's between austin and san antonio and about 4 hours from where i live. are you planning a visit?
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I'm so sorry, Val. I ,too, had a miscarriage but have had 2 great kids since then. I'll keep you in good thoughts and prayers. *hugs*
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you dont know how common miscarriages are until you have one, then everyone you talk to has had one at one time and then went on to have beautiful healthy babies.
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I woke up at 4 am with BOTH kids in bed with me! Needless to say I didn't get much sleep and I have a midterm test this morning!!! I also have a super busy day with final planning for the college event tomorrow.
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Oh, Val! I'm so sorry!!! I guess we are both suffering a loss this week. Please let us know if there's anything we can do for you. A miscarriage is such a difficult time, I've been there, too. Big hugs to you!!!
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BIG HUGS for Val! Wish I had more words of comfort just take care of yourself and let me know if you need anything!
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and (((hugs))) for novell.


and (((hugs))) for val.
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