Pam...this can be hard.. Several different ideas:
1. I recently purchased a lighting kit that is designed to take pictures of eBay items..I use it to take photos of cards. I first saw it on Taylor's blog, but I cannot find the link...:( You can see it here:
Sets up like a little studio.
Make sure you go to Amazon through the link on the SCS homepage so the community gets a little kick back...just a little way to give back to the community! ;)
2. Sometimes I take my photos up to the only room in my home that gets direct sunlight through the window..it's the girls bathroom, but I have a vanity and lamp set up in there. This works better in the winter because the summer sun is too high to come directly in the window. Direct, natural light is the best!
3. Sometimes I take them outside...I'll make a little set up on rocks or even on top of the BBQ grill.
4. Some folks I know make a little backdrop on the seat of a chair to cover the seat and back with white cardstock. Then they prop their card and some accessories up and click!
5. Last resort for me is to set the stuff up at my actual stamping work station and hit it with my OTT light.
Best advise I got was to take the photo without flash. I still have lots to learn, so I'll be reading other's advice, too! I have the Rebel camera, but it hasn't solved all my issues! ;)