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Unread 07-30-2011, 07:19 PM   #334
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Of all the surprises I went through in my divorce, I think the judge I had to go before a year after our divorce was final shocked me the most. My ex decided, the last month of my daughter's pre-kindergarten, to quit paying. He also decided to quit paying his share of day care. Just like that. Done. Of course I picked it up, but it was SO HARD. What was I going to do, not let her finish her last month? Anyway, he wouldn't pay, so we went back to court. He got up on the stand and told all these lies, I mean, factual stuff that was plain wrong, no opinion involved. After we both had our say, when the judge was ruling, he said, "You two need to figure out how to get along." I was SO MAD ... I was about to scream right there in the courtroom! WE have to learn how to get along.... when he quit meeting his court-ordered obligations? From what I have seen, the legal system is pretty broken when it comes to so many family issues.
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