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Mothermark 01-23-2012 04:04 AM

SEARCHING FOR THE APPROPRIATE WORDS TO SAY!
 
WELCOME TO TEAPOT TUESDAY
SEARCHING FOR THE APPROPRIATE WORDS TO SAY!



Hi everyone! If you are here at this thread you might be struggling to find the appropriate words to say in a card you are sending to the weekly Destination Station recipient. You are not alone, its a difficult thing, and I think we all struggle from time to time.

As you know many of the cards we mail to people through our Tuesday challenges are terminal patients and in some cases they have very little time to live. We have mailed our cards to several terminal patients and have found that the cards bring a bright spot in the last days of their lives. We also have mailed our cards to family members who have lost loved ones.

I have received several e-mails asking me for ideas on what to write in the inside of your cards. This week, the recipient of our cards is a friend of Dorothy (Etsdas) and Betty is terminal. Dorothy came up with a wonderful idea! Why not start a thread and share ideas. Dorothy would like to see this thread hold a collection of short, chipper, cheerful, thinking of you verses. Verses that are upbeat but could be used and appropriate for terminal patients.

So, the purpose of this thread is to collect everyone's thoughts and favorite verses, sayings and sentiments to use on the inside of your card. For ease in reading, lets use one post to share one idea. Please follow along and share your ideas and kind words. Please feel free to leave religious verses as well. I try to indicate in the Destination Station thread each week whether it is appropriate to send religious thoughts/sentiments to the specific recipients.

Together, we will end the search for the appropriate words! I will start with a few ideas, things that I have used in the past.

Thank you Dorothy for this great suggestion!

Mothermark 01-23-2012 04:12 AM

Dear Recipient:

I am sending you these little sunflowers all the way from Colorado in hopes that when they arrive at your mailbox, they will brighten your day.

Thinking of you in Colorado.

Note: Insert appropriate words where underlined depending on the theme of the challenge and where you live.

Mothermark 01-23-2012 04:21 AM

Dear Recipient:

I made this little card specifically for you and I hope it's arrival will bring a smile.

Thinking of you.

Mothermark 01-23-2012 04:24 AM

Dear Recipient:

A simple but handmade gift made in Colorado with thoughts of you. I don't know you personally but hope that by receiving this card from me, you will know that I care.

Thinking of you in Colorado.

Mothermark 01-23-2012 04:31 AM

Dear Recipient:

I am a friend of Suzie and I have sent you this handmade card to let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. I hope you will enjoy receiving a card that was made specially for you!

Thinking of you in Colorado.

Mothermark 01-23-2012 05:00 AM

Dear Recipient:

Your friend Suzie told me that one of your favorites things is sunflowers and one of Suzie's favoritie things is YOU! I put your favorite thing and her favorite thing together and made this little card for you in hopes that it brings a brightens you day!

Thinking of you in Colorado.

Mothermark 01-23-2012 05:05 AM

Dear Recipient:

A little birdie told me that you love sunflowers! Another little birdie told me that if I made you this little card, it make you smile! A third little birdie told me the first two birdies are never wrong! I hope all these birdies know what they are talking about!

Thinking of you in Colorado!

Mothermark 01-23-2012 05:21 AM

Dear Recipient:

This little card arrived today!
Coming to you from a long, long way.
A gift to you with something to say..
And add some cheer to your day today.

Thinking of you in Colorado.

etsdas 01-23-2012 07:15 PM

What a great list! Thank you, Cindy.
I have more to add but will have to do most of them later.

A ray of sunshine
A breath of springtime
And caring thoughts
For you.

mschoener 01-23-2012 07:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mothermark (Post 19113049)
Dear Recipient:

This little card arrived today!
Coming to you from a long, long way.
A gift to you with something to say..
And add some cheer to your day today.

Thinking of you in Colorado.

I like this one.

foxy67 01-23-2012 08:20 PM

Cindy, Your a life saver for starting this. I am always lost(yah! I know, I'm lost anyway) for words to put on these cards....Thanks a big bunch...

CAKath 01-23-2012 08:22 PM

This is really helpful, Cindy. I will try to add something to the thread.

I say something like this, "Just want you to know someone in California is keeping you in their thoughts today. Sending along a little ray of California sunshine your way."

Kathy

gabalot 01-23-2012 08:25 PM

I wrote these words to write in my card when it's finished. If anyone has the thought that they may be inappropriate, please let me know a.s.a.p. I could only draw from my most recent experiences, "walking" with my sweet Aunt and my dear husband.

Hello Betty! I am Gabby, one of Dorothy's fellow Teapotters from Split Coast Stampers. I am sending you this card with a wagon full of flowers, which are my wishes that today is a good day for you! Know that even though we are not personally acquainted and I cannot literally walk with you, I am in caring thoughts and prayer, walking beside you.

vickydee 01-23-2012 08:28 PM

This is what the inside of my card says this week:

Sending my thoughts and a little prayer, too
Just so you'll know someone cares about you.

redcaboose1717 01-23-2012 08:40 PM

I like a couple of phrases from SU's Hard to Say set. I use this set a lot with my friends who are battling cancer and other diseases..."I've never known someone so brave. I'm praying for you." and "You are stronger than this. You are brave and courageous. And let's face it, You're my friend so that means you can put up with anything!" and finally, "Life doesn't always happen just as we planned, but I plan to be there for you always."

Or maybe this ;
Please know that I am here for you.

redcaboose1717 01-23-2012 08:43 PM

This is VERY NICE.....


Quote:

Originally Posted by gabalot (Post 19115735)
I wrote these words to write in my card when it's finished. If anyone has the thought that they may be inappropriate, please let me know a.s.a.p. I could only draw from my most recent experiences, "walking" with my sweet Aunt and my dear husband.

Hello Betty! I am Gabby, one of Dorothy's fellow Teapotters from Split Coast Stampers. I am sending you this card with a wagon full of flowers, which are my wishes that today is a good day for you! Know that even though we are not personally acquainted and I cannot literally walk with you, I am in caring thoughts and prayer, walking beside you.


etsdas 01-24-2012 03:01 AM

Thanks for the additions - I am adding a lot to my list. Gabby, what a nice explanation to include.

etsdas 01-24-2012 03:05 AM

Here are several:

We were thinking of you today…
…and just wanted you to know
How important you are to us.

May God’s love and care
Be with you every day!
With hugs
And lots of love!

We are strangers to each other, but we want to tell you that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Missro 01-24-2012 03:06 AM

This was a wonderful suggestion Dorothy and thank you Cindy for starting this thread! So many great thoughts already posted here!!

Here is what is in my card for Betty:

Dear Betty,

I am sending sunshine, smiles and warm hugs from Massachusetts along with a simple wish that this day will bring you happiness.

With caring thoughts,

etsdas 01-24-2012 03:08 AM

More:

A special hello
sent to you
With warmest thoughts
and best wishes.

Just to let you know
I am remembering you
In prayer
And trusting God
To touch your life
With warmth and loving care.

Mothermark 01-24-2012 03:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gabalot (Post 19115735)
I wrote these words to write in my card when it's finished. If anyone has the thought that they may be inappropriate, please let me know a.s.a.p. I could only draw from my most recent experiences, "walking" with my sweet Aunt and my dear husband.

Hello Betty! I am Gabby, one of Dorothy's fellow Teapotters from Split Coast Stampers. I am sending you this card with a wagon full of flowers, which are my wishes that today is a good day for you! Know that even though we are not personally acquainted and I cannot literally walk with you, I am in caring thoughts and prayer, walking beside you.

Beautifully said Gabby! Most definately APPROPRIATE!

Mothermark 01-24-2012 03:24 AM

I am so happy you all are jumping in here and sharing! There are so many good suggestions already! Thanks Dorothy, you da man!

I love the heart warming, more personal messages...its nice to have that here......

catgondek 01-24-2012 04:33 AM

I used to have a pair of stamps ... the first one said, Hope today is a good day... and the 2nd one said ... and tomorrow is even better!

Sometimes I only use the first one.

Darla Ryan 01-24-2012 04:36 AM

Bless you Dorothy and Cindy for making this thread. Sometimes I draw a complete blank when faced with writing a message to someone who needs badly needs comfort or cheer.

Francie G. 01-24-2012 04:59 AM

So many beautiful suggestions! Thank you all!

Barbarar20 01-24-2012 05:41 AM

Sending hugs to you from New York. Please add my name to the list of all your friends and family that love and keep you in their thoughts today.

Goals 01-24-2012 06:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by redcaboose1717 (Post 19115782)
This is VERY NICE.....

I thought this was especially nice too and a good idea to include a brief explanation as to who the sender is.

The cards we send help more than the person to whom they are originally addressed I think. Hopefully they comfort the caregivers, friends and family too.

JustMe427 01-24-2012 07:03 AM

I thought I was the only one with this problem. So thank you, thank you for this thread.

I like to include my favorite Bible verse:

The Lord bless you and keep you,
The Lord make his face to shine upon you
and be gracious to you.
The Lord turn His face toward you
and give you peace.
Numbers 6:24-26

This verse always brings me such comfort, and I hope it will bring comfort to someone else, too.

Rosalia

etsdas 01-24-2012 05:15 PM

For some reason, it had never occurred to me to add the bit about "greetings from AZ..." - I agree, thanks for all the great ideas.
And confession here - guess I will have to learn to read the directions - now I know there should be one verse per post. Cindy, when did you start using rules?

Broom 01-24-2012 06:36 PM

This thread is a GREAT idea! I always struggle with what to say, and this will be really helpful when trying to choose an appropriate message. I forgot to write down what I said in Betty's card, but I know it included "Please know that I'm keeping you in my thoughts and prayers"

chrisations.ink 01-25-2012 08:34 PM

What a great thread! Thank you all for sharing. I certainly lack in the "inside of a card sentiment" department.

redcaboose1717 01-26-2012 07:58 AM

This is wonderful.....YEARS prior to making my own cards ( gosh I haven't purchased a CARD since 2003 ! ) I purchased a card with this verse in it, and then went back and purchased 8-10 more of the same card !!! I thought it was a very appropriate card for some instances ....illness, terminally ill patients etc.

I forgot about this ...thanks for mentioning it once more !
Jacqueline





I like to include my favorite Bible verse:

The Lord bless you and keep you,
The Lord make his face to shine upon you
and be gracious to you.
The Lord turn His face toward you
and give you peace.
Numbers 6:24-26

This verse always brings me such comfort, and I hope it will bring comfort to someone else, too.

Rosalia[/QUOTE]

Mothermark 01-26-2012 09:43 PM

Dorothy....what rule? I forgot, did I put a rule in place? Snort!
No big deal...just go with the flow.....that's all we know! Ha ha! I made a rhyme!

Hey Sugar...you an Rosalia love the same verse! Whoda thunk!

My ideas that I wrote in the beginning sound so goofy compared to others....but then hey, I suppose that is just me! You guys will help me here!

etsdas 01-29-2012 02:17 PM

No, Cindy, not goofy at all. I am coming back here often to copy ideas - including yours.

Marleygo 01-31-2012 03:58 AM

I found this precious sentiment stamp at a little Amish Farmhouse shop and I use it when people aren't going to get better and I know they are religious.

God has promised to never
leave nor forsake you.
You can count on Him
through this illness.
He will carry you in
His loving arms.

This gives me comfort. I hope it does the same for the recipient of the card.

bensarmom 07-02-2012 01:04 PM

Love what you've started here Cindy, I will bookmark it. I have to tell you that when I had a friend who was terminal my son Ben was young. He used to tell me a knock-knock joke to put into the card each time I sent one. Here's a link to something that might be fun to tickle a funny bone or two.
Knock Knock Jokes

sumtoy 10-07-2012 12:48 AM

Here's one I use a lot...

If the future seems overwhelming, remember that it comes one moment at a time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.


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