Hi ~
I live in Dutchess County, NY (about 40 minutes from Danbury, CT). My geography skills are rusty and I'm too lazy too look at a map but I do know of a few threads trying to arrange gatherings in parts of NY or CT. The links are below and maybe one will work out for you (I have subscribed to all 3 so I'll see ya there):
anyone in hamden, ct?
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Do we have any Stamping fanatics in New York?
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CNY Chat1
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This group is very friendly and I hope I can go to their May gathering (I believe it's scheduled for May 19th). They are in the Central NY area so there'll be a bit of traveling but I'm plannng to be there.
I hope you find this helpful and a gathering happens soon. I'd love to meet SCSers so feel free to send me a PM if I don't live too far from you.
Happy Crafting!