Sammie, tha fact that you take time out of your pain and rightfully earned pity party to come update us speaks volumes about the kind of woman you are. Keep up the good fight. Keep that chart and in ten years take it out and tease DH about how silly he can be sometimes.
I hope that you truly do feel the warmth and love that comes in all these virtual hugs. You have a huge community rallying around you here. Please continue to take advantage if whatever you need from us. Don't hesitate to ask for anything.