I don't know how I missed this thread for so long, and I am crying so hard right now that I can't read the whole thing from the beginning. My 14-year-old son has Asperger's and Tourette Syndrome and OCD. So much of what you are saying here hits home for me. Some days I feel like my whole life is wrapped up in Danny's condition(s). The fear and anxiety never leave me, never for a minute. My heart goes out to all of you who are struggling.