I sent a nice sympathy card to my cousin today. The way things went yesterday, my assumption is that all of the cards and memorials that people brought to the funeral home or to the church luncheon will go to Luke's current wife. Not that she doesn't deserve them, of course, but it was obvious that her parents were in charge yesterday and that certain people felt left out, KWIM? I especially felt bad for Luke's son and daughter from his previous marriage, who were not seated in the family section, but with the other kids (their cousins, I imagine, and maybe their step-sisters?). I certainly hope that Luke had a will that somehow provides for them.
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