(hate to be the rain on the birthday parade....but please keep my friend's family in your thoughts and prayers....they lost their 10mo old nephew do to an accidental suffercation).
Oh how tragic for your friend.
I'm know she is hurting and it is so good that you can be there with her to lend a hand of comfort. I will keep the family in my prayers...I'm not sure anything is much worse than losing a child, and especially when they are young. Please give your friend my heartfelt thoughts and prayers.