I put my ring in the safety deposit box yesterday.

The divorce is not final yet but why not?! My hand feels sooo naked. I can still see the indent on my finger...I was wearing it for over 16 yrs. Maybe I should put it back on? I don't want to answer questions. It shouldn't be this difficult to do something so simple. It's just a ring and I thought I was ready to take it off. *sigh*