I don't know what the answer is, but will talk with my daughter-in-law about it. She took over as practice manager a few months ago, and said there are lots of problems that she is trying to work out. So well, here is another one.
As far as I am concerned I don't care if I go back. I will talk with my regular doctor and see what he recommends. I don't want HIM to do that kind of exam, it would be like my own kid doing it. He is young and cute and .............no.
Life is short.
Lick the bowl.