I am so sorry you are having this problem. Hubby and I have been married 41 years and I think marriage should be a 50/50 thing. Things shouldn't be dictated by how many bills he pays and how many you pay. It's your home as much as his, or should be. You have a right to have space for your hobby the same as he has for his 9 guitars. Sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too. My hubby has been very supportive of my crafts as I have been of his tractor hobby, sometimes I think he spends too much on tractors, but I can't complain cause he doesn't argue when I spend on crafts. Sounds to me like your hubby is a little spoiled. Sorry but that is the way I see it...
Spring shows what God can do with a drab and dirty world. ~Virgil A. Kraft