Tami, maybe consider reducing some of the holiday activities you participate in just because others think you should?
Skipping th traditional Thanksgiving Dinner with family, and eating at the Inn with our friends has been a huge stress reliever for me.
If you could come up with just a couple of ways to make time to rest/relax it could make a big difference for you.
"Adopt the pace of Nature: her secret is patience."~Ralph Waldo Emerson