Sharon M, I'm sorry about your mom's situation. My mom is 92 and for now lives in a small apartment attached to my sister's house. She's getting quote forgetful, but other than that, has been in good health. I need to start getting over there to visit more often. Luckily, my sister is a wonderful, caring & smart person and doesn't have a DH or kids, so she doesn't mind (too much) being her main caretaker. It's so difficult dealing with the emotions connected to our aging parents. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Wendy B in Sunny AZ