Originally Posted by Rainsong
If you're dead, ya can't change your mind.
I think he assumed I would know the time was coming or if something were to happen to DH or one of the kids. I've never been known to change my mind, so not sure where get got that idea. He treated my brothers and I as if we just couldn't possibly understand the way he felt when losing mom. It was offensive and out of line, but we all just let it go bc if it helped him to deal with his pain, who were we to squash that? Of everyone in the family, he knew her the least, IMO. I knew her the best, IMO.
He has since recreated memories and made them much more pleasant than they ever were and has no recollection of all of the horrible things he did. Truly.