I voted yes... just because...um, I don't really know. That was just a knee-jerk reaction. Yes, it would affect everyone, but I'm not anyone's caretaker or anything. I would probably not purposefully keep it a secret, but it would probably be VERY unpleasant for me to talk about, so I probably would simply just... not talk about it. Ever.
Laurie, big hugs to you.
Faites l'amour, pas la guerre, ...ou alors, faites les deux : mariez vous !
ards for troops