Originally Posted by dshaffer1976
Thanks for your honest Kate. I couldn't go on feeling like this any longer. We talked tonight after dinner and he's left already. I basically said that I think we moved too fast and I want to take a step back, including them getting their own place. He's gone now and is looking for storage for his stuff. I know I made the right decision for me and my girls, I just wish it didn't hurt so much. Ah well, live and learn. Thanks again
You did the right thing sweetie and the hurt is normal - it shows you are a caring person. Nearly had a similar experience nearly 30 years ago and thankful to God that I saw the warning signs quickly and got out before it really got started.
Please be extra careful for your are vulnerable right now with your hurt feelings so give yourself lots of time to realize how very valuable you are. <3