Originally Posted by scrappingramma
It's been almost 20 years and I still have some anger. However, it gives me great pleasure to know that our kids and grandkids like spending time with me and my hubby over him and his wife. (I know it's petty, but sometimes you just have to do the happy dance in your head...LOL).
Stay strong and hold your heads high ladies... don't let them bring you down to their level.
My db2 and his wife came over to help me trim trees and clean up the yard the way it should have been done years ago. They happened to get here the same time stbx came to pick up the kids. Ackward...first time this brother has seen him since all this mess. Anyway, it's nice to know my family can at least be civil and say hello unlike his family that snubs me, even though I'm not the one having the affair. Now I can laugh about it (or do the happy dance in my head) rather than feel bad about it.
I'll take progress one step at a time!