Thanks so much for your response Pam. Sometimes, you just want an uninvolved 3rd party to check out the situation.
I did a lot of counselling to not feel guilty for wanting to leave my husband. Now I'm fighting feeling guilty for what's happened here. Thankfully, the counsellor had an opening this week. After this mess gets sorted out, I am not letting anyone...and I mean anyone..move into my house.
The next housemate I get will be my old widowed girlfriends so we can be like the Golden Girls!
Everything will be OK in the end, if it is not OK, then it is not the end!
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