There is a show called Amish: Out of Order and it is amazing how these kids that leave the Amish live. This show takes place in a community filled with ex-Amish. They are so confused, it's really sad to watch. There are some that go from the frying pan into the fire and get baptised as Pentecostal! They just want something to believe in, something to grab onto. Its so sad. We have boys here that are raised in Polygamist towns and get kicked out when there are too many boys for the girls...left to fend for themselves in an unfamiliar atmosphere. These are the things that really break my heart. These people just don't get it.
Ask yourself, "When Iím on my deathbed, will I be glad I was so serious about _______?" Let down your hair and stop being so darn important for a while.