Michele - I know what you mean. My brother is thick-headed as is my daughter. I just read something more about Asperger's and I really think that is what my daughter has. I sent the link to my mom, SIL and friend who knows all of this so well. I want their opinions. But so much of it makes sense. I feel like I'm a bad parent because we haven't been able to figure this out. If this is truly the problem, it would explain a lot.