Wow all, thanks so much for all the insight! I will DEFINITELY be posting and researching (with the help of fellow crafters, like yourselves) before I come up!
At this stage we are still deciding whether to go West or East coast. My wish list though is either Disneyland Anaheim, Seattle, San Fran and maybe Vancouver ... OR ... Disneyworld in Florida and NY.
So yep, lots of decisions to be made (costs of course will be the biggest dictator). All very exciting!
THANKS again to all of you for taking the time to respond. I am so grateful