This is the funniest thing I've read all day.
I just wish there were a funny or wonderful answer with which to respond. I can't even make up a good one. Darn.
I made thank you cards (at his request!!!) for him to send to several people who went REALLY out of their way with kindness at his Dad's funeral. They were friends of his sister's, and they fed the family, decorated her house for Christmas, dealt with all the "stuff" and were really the epitome of what friendship should be about. He didn't know them except by the stories that she had shared with him (they have been friends for years) - he was really amazed that there were still people in this world that behave in this manner and he wanted to send the a special thank you. So, handmade, hand written cards went out today in the mail