I'm so sorry you are still feeling repercussions these days, Renee. I hope that the additional issues that your daughter's wedding have brought up pale in comparison to the joy of her wedding.
My ex recently contacted my sister through fb.
He wanted to tell her that he was applying for a job in the (large) city where she lives. Perhaps he just wanted advice about the area, but from what I understand, he just contacted her to chat about it. Weird. We don't have any children, so there's no real need for us to stay in contact with one another's families. The first thing I thought about when she told me was, "Huh. I wonder if that means he lost *another* job." lol Anyway, I'm glad his problems are no longer my own.