Believe me, it's not gonna continue. I just printed out a calendar so we can plan out November. I'm a planner and he's a wait and see guy so that is so not gonna work. He's supposed to take them Thanksgiving weekend to his parents farm (2 1/2 hrs away) but he's not a celebration/food person and it's at his older sister's and "she's always crabby" so he doesn't want to go for that... can you picture it that he blames me for his not being able to "bring the kids for Thanksgiving" so has to go there Thursday night instead?! I said he can have them after school Wed but I want them back Sunday for my bday. Any predictions?!