I ended up taking the kids to my Mom's neighborhood, where I grew up. Houses are a little closer together than here. Kids loved it... same amount of time outside but twice almost 3x as many houses. Two of my brothers stopped with their kids too. It's also my oldest's birthday so we had cake and sang to him.
Then of course we had to stop at Dad's on the way home...I didn't want to of course but the kids wanted to see him with their costumes on and it was on the way, but I limited it to 5 minutes because it was fast approaching bedtime. I stayed in the car... too angry to go in. He'll be stopping over tomorrow again anyway, if he gets out of work early enough, since it's our dd's bday. (Did I mention we have 3 birthdays within 5 days of each other?!