Hedgie and Jen,
I stumbled on to you two on here earlier today. Divorce has been the beginning and end to the biggest HELL I thought I would ever go through!!! Let me start out by saying that I graduated from High School in June, and got married in July. Basically, I married the first man that I thought could give me security, after living with alcoholic parents and a hell of a childhood. I was married to Don for 21 years, and have two grown children. I have been divorced for almost 20 years now, and remarried for almost 17 years. My marriage now is NOT ideal. I love Bob, but I have never been "In love with" him. He is my friend, and that is all. I just started seeing a counselor last week, and have been very depressed with issues from my past, as well as trying to be satisfied with my present.
I'm not sure if this is the place to discuss the Hell that I've been through on this forum or not???
We had to get rid of the kids~~~
~~~The cats were allergic!!!