Hi Troopersma, glad things got wrapped up for you but I am sorry for what your kids have to go through. I don't know what that is like since I am not a mom but I do know from a kids point of view. Just remember that the kids will see the true father he is someday! It took my brothers quite a while until they realized what a bad father my dad was but at least now my mother has all her kids understanding what she went through!
Jen good luck with tomorrow. Thank you for your advice. I am going to try to talk to my parents about me filing for divorce.