My husband hasn't filed for the divorce yet. I have found a lawyer who said he would represent me if needed. I think I will definitely use him. I feel like I am already being taken advantage of. Supposedly our taxes were done but I never signed anything. He must have signed my name which makes me very upset. I don't know when he is going to file but I will be happy when he does.
Originally Posted by hedgiemama
My first feelings of relief were when I had a lawyer set up, I had the necessary paperwork in place, I felt a huge weight off of my shoulders as I knew I had help and support. I saw my counselor regularly. And, the decison was made. I almost felt like I was floating compared to the initial heaviness.
From then, on there were ups and downs, but nothing quite as severe as the initial shock and making the decision to do it. Have you started the process yet? Hang in there, it will get better.