Mine had problems he alone had to address, which I offered to support him on one hundred percent and we needed marital counseling. He declined both. I really thought at some point during the process he would come around. But, he did not.
If both are willing to try, that is great! Wasn't the case for me either.
BTW, some things have bubbled up to the surface for me lately. I won't bore you, but just want to point out it is a long process and not to get down on yourselves. My counselor has been great in helping me understand what is going on.
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