Queenie Jo---Grilling on our BBQ Webber grille is totally my DH's job--I don't stack the coals right, I put too much or too little lighter fluid in the mix...I have been know to drop hot dogs through the grille--he is our MAN GRILLE GUY and personally, I don't mind one bit...because I am usually in the kitchen making the salad, beans, and securing all the accruchaments for a successful dinner---oddly enough, after all is fed and happy, he takes FULL CREDIT for cooking! No cleaning he just stood there with a poker thingy and watched over meat on fire! haha Oh I let him take the credit--as me n muddy load the dishwasher (he licks-I stack)...funny how that all works at our house! I could wrangle the cow in the back yard...but DAD COOKED DINNER!!!