Andrea- Thanks for all the advice, it is really nice to hear from someone in almost the same place as me- refering to our DS's being about the same age.
Lorraine & Susan- Thanks also...
I Love the idea of the tee-shirt but I am afraid DH will flip-out he is still in denial and doesn't want anyone to know about our Son- He doesn't want our Son Labeled but I try to explain we are not placing a label on him, it is his diagnosis. It is a disorder.
Even though I feel totally alone- I know I am not, this is the reason I joined in this forum/support group. Anyone that wants to speak in PM- feel free, even though I am not on everyday, I will respond as time allows.
Thanks Everyone.....Gotta go, DS is screaming and banging his head and DH is yelling at him - making everything worse.