I agree with Skittlebrow and Illinoise Marge... you sound pretty bitter.
Which, if that is the case, you definately do not need to go rain on her parade, 'cause what if you were in her shoes and someone felt that way about you.
As for the fact that she told as soon as she found out and didn't wait 12 weeks, who said you have wait 12 weeks┐ Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to be all down on you, but I was pregnant and told people when I found out, I did loose my baby, but I sure don't think that I lost it because I told people too early.
My husband and I are having trouble having a baby, too and I know that it is hard to not feel the way you do, but you just have to trust in God that everything will happen in HIS time.
I'm pretty sure I shut my blog down til further notice! Perhaps forever!!